Tuesday, April 12, 2011

WOMEN can never be EQUAL to MEN


Okay… I am going to land myself into a big time controversy here. I firmly believe that women can never be equal to men. If you think otherwise…think again…I am going to prove all of you wrong in this post. If you are a man…enjoy reading and boost your male ego. If you are a woman…do you really want to read this post and embarrass yourself? If you have the guts then go through it and I challenge you to prove me wrong.

“Women will never be equal to men until they can walk down the street with a bald head and a beer gut, and still think they are sexy”

Firstly, lets get our basics right. There are many men who look good in moustaches…show me one woman.  Nature has made us different because that is what it wants. If you do not understand me, go and strip yourself in front of the mirror and compare yourself with a naked picture of someone of the opposite sex and you will know what I mean. Why are there so many naked shadus in Kumbh Mela and not a single naked Sadhvis? At least I haven’t been lucky enough to see one. Why is it so common to see males peeing in the side of a busy road in-front of the whole world and later saying that India is dirty, and not a single woman doing the same? We are different physically and we know that. That’s why most of the men’s magazines are full of pictures of naked or half-dressed women. It turns men on. So what does all the women’s magazine feature? Again naked or half-dressed women! In fact most of the time when women looks at a naked men they burst into laughter! Ever thought why so many women are forced into prostitution? Why is it mostly the girls who are victims of sexual harassment?  India is listed in the Tier II list of the UN which includes countries which have failed to combat human trafficking. Human beings seem to be the only species where females are more beautiful than the lumpy and furry male counterparts…or may be beauty just lies in the eyes of the beholder!

We agree that women are beautiful (or lazy) unlike the males. However it is surprising that it is the women who are more conscious about their looks. When men wake up they are as good looking as when they went to bed. Women, however, deteriorate during the night. Take thousands of snaps of them and they are never happy with their looks, even though they spend most of their time in front of the mirror. Why is that? Not only do we look different our thought processes are also different. Men’s brains are solution-oriented and woman’s brains are process-oriented. Men can think of only one thing at a time, while women are good at multitasking. Women will lie to make you feel good while most men will lie to make themselves look good. Why do you think most women keep quiet when their drunken husbands come home late night and beat them up? Problems of dowry, violence against widows, domestic violence, sex discrimination, and they still keep quiet. How many men will keep quiet when they are beaten up by their wives? You still believe women can be equal to men?

When a woman slaps a man in public, everybody will be 100% sure that it was the man’s fault. When a man slaps a woman in public, it is still his fault! Not only do we look and think different, the perceptions of the world towards these two different sexes are different. Why else are 90% of the rural female labour force who work more than men (they feed families, carry water, collect fuel, but still this is not counted as work) are labelled ‘housewives’? Even in the developed countries men, on average, are paid much higher than women.  Why is it so common to see old women blessing pregnant wives to have son? Why are there still so many cases of female infanticides and sex selective abortions in India? Because women are not equal to men and men are obviously the preferred sex (in the minds of the idiots). If we keep killing female foetus we will end up in a world where the fantasies of our narrow mind will be fulfilled only though porn movies. Or else we have to simply turn gay. What a world this world will be if everyone here were just like me!

So now you know why women can never be equal to men. While men work hard throughout the day for their family, women not only work but at the same time as mothers they raise families, as lovers they give meaning to the life, as daughters they take care of their parents, and as a woman they constantly heal the human race. As a woman always remember that you are not equal to men, you are far superior. That’s why we envy you, and that is the reason we try to dominate you. Since we do not hunt animals any more, it is the only way to feed our male egos.  


Check out the post HUNTRESS to SEDUCTRESS to know the history of Women....from the pre-historic hunters and gatherers to the present day....



You React:

99 comments:

  1. :D
    As I started reading your post, I decided in my mind that I am going to write lots of rubbish in the comments section :P but as I read further, I started realizing that you're only writing in favor of a woman and as your post ended, I could not just do away without a smile :)

    Great post! :)

    Regards!

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  2. @ Sanjana...
    good to know that i made sm1 smile...but i would still like to hear those 'rubbish' comments ! :-P
    thanks

    @ Rachit...
    Thanks dude! :-)

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  3. when i looked this post and the pictures. i thought what happened to Subhashish..He is a person having an evolved thinking process, how can he embarrass girls only for having guts to put away their all the clothes in public ha ha. but later its very nice. liked it so much. keep going :)

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  4. @some unspoken words...
    ha ha...lol...sorry for the teasing in the beginning...:-P
    thanks for liking it :-)

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  5. Your last paragraph wraps it up nicely.

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  6. well the humor is ok.

    but should not be gender biased right?

    but at last u finished up praising women. thats gud.

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  7. @ Pundit Commentator...
    thanks a lot :-)

    @ Chinmay BlackBird ...Oh..that was mostly fun and satire :-)...but I am gender biased...biased towards the fairer sex!! Thanks for your comments dude :-)

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  8. Oh my! Misleading at the beginning and hilarious at the end. Amazing! I couldn't stop smiling:)

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  9. The feminine and masculine are the yin and the yang - polar opposites, yet connected to each other. We both are the wheels of life, we need each other for the perfect balance of life.

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  10. fantabulous :)

    all that i wanted to say,has already been said in the previous comments..i ddnt repeat.. :)

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  11. out of topic ques....history of god is worth reading? i see dat u have read it..

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  12. Hahhhh.. Grt post!
    A must read Indeed !!
    "That’s why we envy you, and that is the reason we try to dominate you. " Impressed !!
    Yea It's the India !!
    Ur intro makes damn irritating, infact cools by your conclusion :)

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  14. @UB...Thanks a lot...:-)...the first para was meant to make few gals angry..cuz u know we r jealous of u ;-)

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  15. @Purba...very well said...i just hope they are not the 2 sides of the same coin...else they will never look at each other :-)

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  16. @zephyr...thanks a lot...
    i would recommend that book...it is written from an unbiased perspective...and is very informative...it isn't about god but about the evolution of the idea of god...

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  17. Vysh @The Colourful Eyes...
    sorry for being 'irritating' :-P
    i am glad that u liked it :-)

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  18. Nice! Woman is a great program designed by God.

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  19. @Rama Mohan A...well said :-)
    i am glad u liked my post...:-)
    Cheers!
    SUB

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  20. Nice one. I was so angry when I started reading the post, but ended with a smile. And as Purba mentioned already- Masculine and Feminine need each other,and I would like to add; the power dynamics is our creation.

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  21. @SUB...Hmm this was nice !! I loved it ...y search for equality amongst unequals..both are different in their own sense..no good or nad in it ! just the way it is or rather it is meant to be ! just to add to ur lines...Females are superior coz without them there is no human on earth but at the same the vice versa applies too..right ?? hehhe just kidding..loved ur ending when u subtlely ended in favour of females after gently making ur point clear to everyone in the starting..something like a powerplay..lol ..keep posting dude..nice reading :)

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  22. Men ... *I can never understand them* ... Women ...*I have failed in this one even* ... :P
    For me, its more about individuality... Venus n Mars or Mars n Venus... I don't get the hang of it. We do have tendency to complicate even the simplest things... :P ..*My wish ~~ plz.. plz.. do get waxed once..* ..

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  23. Thanks for the last paraghraph... otherwise I am sure there would have been a long list of negative comments from me :) Atleast you realise the aura of a woman. Hope others do so soon :)

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  24. @Apeetha Ravi...thanks :-)
    you are right...no matter how much science advances...we would be lonely without each other.

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  25. @Apeetha Ravi...thanks dude...yes we should not compare two different things...that is what i wanted to say...it is that difference that makes us like each other...the way science is advancing they might not need us for reproduction...but not to worry...we both know that we would feel lonely without each other...:-)

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  26. @ Rashmi Nair...lol...
    i bet women will wax even if we said not to...*try shaving every day in the morning...esp in winters* :-P...
    i agree, there is no need to complicate things and every body is unique in their own way :-)
    Thanks for reading...
    Cheers...

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  27. @Tina Basu...thanks :-)...i guess even in the earlier paragraphs i did not say anything wrong
    :-))
    Cheers!

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  28. @ Nandita Prakash...
    superlike ur comment :-) thanks

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  29. hi,
    I actually felt the opposite!!
    You said the right thing in the beginning about women being inferior.. but i was surprised that you said she was superior in the end?
    Naah,, a woman is inferior.. thats the way it is and should be.. period!
    But, your illustrations were nice.
    Thanks

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  30. @Shazia...
    I'm glad that u read my post...
    even in the beginning i never said women r inferior??what makes you think that?
    i agree that their current status is inferior to that of men....but that does not make them inferior...:-)

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  31. hello,

    I read ur post. It is nice. But i want say both are equal.

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  32. @ Sub,
    You didn't say it but it was implied.. no?
    anyways, for me, women remain inferior to men.. in both mental and physical aspects!
    Men are truly the best creation of God!
    (A)men!
    :) thanks again

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  33. @TIGHER...
    thanks...equal in what sense? we are mentally and physically different...and their current status in the world in definitely not equal to men as i mentioned in my post "huntress to seductress"...in an ideal world their status should be equal...but it isn't...it is upto us to make it equal!!!
    Cheers!

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  34. @Shazia...i didn't really try to imply that! the was just teasing in the first para!!lol
    i was being sarcastic when i was talking about naked sadhus or when i said "Why is it so common to see males peeing in the side of a busy road in-front of the whole world and later saying that India is dirty, and not a single woman doing the same?"
    physically most men are stronger but there are definately many women who were stronger than men. check out my post "huntress to seductress"...but mentally i think it is a individual thing...does not depends on one being male or female!!!

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  35. @ Sub,
    I know you were kidding in the first para, but I was seriously thinking.. this man is so right! (though I guessed your sarcasm)
    And I do know that there are SOME women who exceed men in strength. But I am not talking about some, I am talking about in general.
    I hate celebrating anything which makes a woman special apparently.. especially woman's day, mother's day.. Now, why don't we celebrate a man's day? answer me? please :)
    thanks

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  36. Like what you got going on here with your blog!
    when you get a chance come and stop by my blog sometimes and if you like what you see become of my follower!

    http://lifemadness-linhy.blogspot.com

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  38. @Linhy ...thanks a lot...i will definitely visit ur site...

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  39. @Shazia...i can understand what u r saying...even my wife hates when someone says that women gives birth to mankind and that makes them special...but that is like a false consolation!!there is every reason for you to hate things like that...
    and in any case i do not mean to compare the 2 sexes of the same species...after all we are just one amongst the numerous species and actually too insignificant to even talk of it...
    but what i tried to say in the post is that men have somehow dominated the world when both sex should have had equal opportunity...
    ...and it is only because men dominated, that women revolted...and one of such revolution is marked as women's day...so the question , i guess, is probably not "why man's day in not celebrated?" but rather "why women's day is celebrated?"
    thanks again!

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  40. Hi Sub,
    That was quite a nice and logical explanation. maybe the male dominated and celebrating woman's day is like an Independence day for women.. but your and wife and me.. hate it.. probably because being a woman we know.. that liberation is one thing we never can get.. as long as we are women!!

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  41. @Shazia...as you said in your post...they do not make men and women like before...so things are changing at least in few pockets of the world...i think woman will definitely get liberation with the advancement of out thought process as well as science...but may be not in out lifetime...

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  42.  :-)..thanks for the visit....will check your blog :-)

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  43. Nooooo comments.....lolz
    check my blog sushmaspage.blogspot.  

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  44. So the above sums up to this title... 'Men can be never equal to Women' true story :p ;)

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  45. http://twistingthetail.blogspot.com/2011/05/hello-beautiful.html

    vote if you like it
    my friend's blog

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  46. wonderful comments.....thanks a lot...
    you are right...it is really not about who is great but it is the perception of one sex towards another....we men get so much respect from women, but are we ready to return the favour to them??? it is just that difference of perception that makes women great....
    I hope all men understand it some day....

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  47. No comments on your basic hypothesis... it doesn't need comments.
    A few questions, not to you but to people who might disagree with you.

    a woman can easily walk semi-naked on the road, pee at a road side and all the other such things you mentioned, but would you or I or the others be ready to see it?
    The question here is more of the person witnessing than the person doing it.

    Question two, if a woman looked the same in the morning as at night, would fickle minded men be able to not see their "girls"/"wives" etc, not getting dressed up for them. I am ready to go to the market without make-up, is my boyfriend ready to take me? (and this has nothing to do with how the girl looks). We spend most time in front of the mirror because that is how men are used to seeing us.

    Woman trafficking? Allow a woman to be herself and be natural and not have to be shy and reserved about sex and so on and so forth and allow sex to be not such a taboo, will trafficking exist? I doubt.


    It's not that woman are by far superior or not.... the issue is, woman are NOT inferior. Hope the difference is understandable. :)


    Take care. And before I forget, A WONDERFUL POST.

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  48. fantastic post.well written 

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  49. Eh! I would say - women are not inferior. It is a good post I must say :)

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  50. Thanks a lot @TheSmartBilli:disqus  :-)

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  51. Thanks @5f3ab4e1fc48fc00453106feeb02794d:disqus ...:-)
    they aren't 

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  52. Today, our functions.. The male functions could easily be furfilled through science, If all females suddenly died, the human race would die with them.

    However if all males died, tons of world problems would be solved, we would be rid of the dominating males, the fair sex could duplicate sperm from sperm banks, and thus move on, the world would be a better place.

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  53. A wonderful post and marvelously writtenen :-) & yes, thanks for the 'respect for women.' Good to know that there are people appreciating it and taking risk by writing such controversial post on their blog. Good luck!

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  54. Thanks Gargi...:-)
    glad you liked it...

    Cheers!
    SUB

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  55. The arguments rest on the pre-existing state of affairs rather than contextualising them within the gradual formation and reinforcement of social perceptions regarding gender. It amounts to assuming the hypothesis is true and then proving it so. When we talk of gender equality (superiority is really irrelevant in the current scenario), it is usually more about what can (according to some, what ideally should) be as compared to what is, rather than this is what exists, therefore this is true. A well written post, nevertheless.

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  56. i do not disagree with you Ruhi...
    This post had two objective...

    First, to make people believe that women are not inferior...You might say
    that anybody with sense will know that, so what is the point...the point is
    people do not...women are still seen as inferior...infact women themslves
    think so... i respect women because i have seen my mother as a strong
    personality who has fought against the injustice of the society...i do not
    give damn to the biological reasons why women are weak because i have seen a
    strong woman...most people do not, because most women prefer to play the
    second fiddle in the family...children grow up thinking that women are weak,
    and thus the inequality gets incepted in their minds. Unless all women take
    the responsibility and be the strong mother role model for their kids, the
    younger generation will never be able to treat them equally. If you read my
    post 'Huntress to seductress' you will see the there are women who have
    shown strength, there are many women role models around...

    The second reason for this post was to make KHOJ visible..., people like
    spicy posts....i just wanted to give people what they want so that the
    popularity of my site increases...an honest confession...:-)

    Cheers!
    SUB

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  57. Today, our functions.. The male functions could easily be furfilled through science, If all females suddenly died, the human race would die with them.

    However if all males died, tons of world problems would be solved, we would be rid of the dominating males, the fair sex could duplicate sperm from sperm banks, and thus move on, the world would be a better place.

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  58. lol...it isn't just about continuation of hu(wo)man race...there is more to this world...better or worse is just a perspective...
    i bet you all will be bored to death soon in a world like that...:-)

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  59.  LOL!! Some of the things were old and cliche. But liked many things.

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  60. wonderful post! this is a man's world? may be from man's point of view! from nature and evolutionary point of view better words "wo'man's world" as female has the power to give birth not male! Yes! Even without male! But yes world would not be as colorful as it is with both these sexes..
    Happy blogging :) 

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  61. you mean without?...
    welcome to KHOJ...thanks for your visit...

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  62. thank you! yes! female alone is able to survive and pass on its DNA to the next generation in many species but male is not. e.g. many reptiles including few species of lizards, sharks and snake (indian brahmin blind snake), some birds. though still no reports from mammals but in-vivo studies say it's possible. 
    on the other hand the way Y-chromosome (male chromosome) losing genes over time who knows what would be the future of this homo sapiens species! the nature's drama either too complex or may be too simple but we pathetic creatures still keep on fighting unnecessarily rather than living peacefully this short life; do not know for what!
    like the title of your blog!

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  63. human intelligence is overrated...if we forget the prejudice of our intelligence and consider ourselves stupid we will realize why we fight...rightly said, pathetic creatures...

    Cheers!
    SUB

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  64. u just earned a follower cz of this blog... beautifully written.... many men are cowards enough to accept this... u r quite brave to actually say it... well done... :)

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  65. thanks Pritz...glad you liked it..
    call it cowardice, call it ego...
    i ain't brave...it just takes a bit of common sense to realize...

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  66. Lol :D I can't help but laugh out... equality!! Well your other half will make you understand that! :P :P Heehee :D

    Cheers,

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  67. You're absolutely right about this. We should learn to love the differences instead of critic them. 

    More of this.. If you cant get nude women  out of men magazine, add nude men in women magazines. 

    And another thing: people need to respect true love. Black or white or any color: heart still beat for someone.....

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  68. yes true...

    lol ...I doubt 'nude men in women magazines' would increase the circulation :)

    colous is just an interpretation of brain...the beating of the heart is what is real...true :)

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  69. I landed here by way of Janhvi's blog, I kinda knew you would end with the Women are Superior thought but was interested in finding out how you would get there. I quite enjoyed the journey. Good work!!

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  70. my first reaction..."wait..whaaaat????"
    now -"aahh...if everyone thought the same way "
    agree with all your points & will recommend every friend to read this :)

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  71. The moment I read the title, I was sure it was not going to boost any man's ego.. Pretty much expected stuff...
    I consider no specie to be superior than the other...
    People have different opinions, I respect yours too :)
    When men wake up they are as good looking as when they went to bed.... I liked this point :D
    Well written :)

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    1. thanks...respect your views too...
      i guess men and women both belong to the same specie :p
      but yea, even i think no one is superior....it's just that i feel that they are superior....it's just my biased heart :)

      Cheers~

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  72. I wanted to simply strangle you!!!!! Now, I wont!! :P

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    1. :) lol...thanks (for not killing me)

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  73. a must read by everyone... meaningful & beautifully penned...really njoyed...

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  74. Infanticides prove that genders are not equal? No, infanticides create gender inequality.

    Also, equal does not mean "same" unless you're doing math.

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    1. Infanticides is because of gender equality create by our biased society....it is an effect, not cause

      true...i did mean equal and not same....

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  75. Look it is obvious your just a women trying to pretend your a man, which...you proabally wished you were. Now for you kids responding all he said was a lie, women are even less physically inferior to men. Men lead their families and women are second calss citzens, if yo all are so superior when through histroy have any of you shown that, men have dominated and they will continue to dominate, it wasn't long befroe yuo women have no rights, now that we give you some you guys start yapping you mouths, just shut up.:) Men will always dominate because GOD gave them the POWER to dominate, GOD gave them the POWER to lead, it is in the bible go read it you stupid dumbass

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  76. True,i think what he said was right

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  77. Yeah women are inferior to men, and men will always dominate, your right man:)

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  78. ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY IT IS A CURSE TO BE BORN AS A MALE

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    1. no...it is great to be a man...that is only because of our better halves :p

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  79. A very good, well written post which I enjoyed reading. However, in paragraph three quiet is written as quite two times. It does spoil the reading pleasure for some like me. You might want to edit.

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    1. Oh sorry...thanks for noting...will change

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  80. Your whole post is moving. I like the flow you build in the beginning and the way it segues till the end to reveal your true intentions.

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    1. Hey Stuti...welcome back....after a long time...
      Thanks so much for your comment ...glad you liked it :)

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